Ask DG #1

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Dear DG,

In less than a month I’m going to college. I’ve been working really hard all throughout high school and I’m really excited to finally become a college student. I’ve decided to dorm over there since it’ll be easier for me to be closer to school than to go back and forth. But I’m also kind of scared since it’s my first time being without my family. Any tips as to dealing with college?

-Freshman, CT

Dear Freshman,

At first college can be somewhat scary since you’re going to be on your own. But once you’ll get used to it, it’ll turn out to be one of the best experiences you’ll ever have. Go to clubs or other activities to meet new people. Also, make sure you develop a good relationship with your professors since they’re going to be the ones giving recommendations for grad school or even for a job. You should also learn time managing skills as well for juggling school life with dorm life with ease. Congrats on your acceptance, and enjoy.

-DG

Dear DG,

I’ve been trying to get a job for a couple of months now. Every interview I go to, I ace it with ease. I also come to interviews well dressed and presentable. The problem is I lack experience. I go to countless of jobs who are hiring and each time I always get the same response, “I’m sorry we’re looking for people with experience.” How can I even get experience if none of the jobs will give me the chance to do so? I need help DG. What should I do?

-Annoyed, WI

Dear Annoyed,

It is a viscous cycle for someone with no experience trying to get a job. Just keep on trying and don’t quit. Luckily, you’ll end up finding a job that will hire you. As for getting experience, why not try volunteering? Not only is it great to put on your resume but it’s also a good way to make connections for future references. Good luck on your job hunting.

-DG

Dear DG,

Recently my grandmother passed away from old age and ever since then my whole world has turned upside down. I was really close to her and now I feel like a part of me has died with her. My parents say the feelings of being depressed will soon fade but I feel like I can never get over her. What should I do?

-Sad and Confused, MO

Dear Sad and Confused,

I’m deeply sorry for your loss and I know its hard dealing with the passing of your love one. There’s many ways of dealing with the sadness though. You can share stories with your other relatives about the good memories you had with your grandmother. You can also be creative and make a scrapbook dedicating to grandma as well. Either way, instead of being sad why not take the time to celebrate the life your grandma had. It’ll help the family go on a lot easier.

-DG